Praying the Rosary


The Rosary has been part of a daily routine for most of my life. The past 3 years we've made grand efforts with having the whole family come together for evening rosary, including setting alarms and not allowing any television until it's been said. We've also made a routine of praying the 3pm Chaplet of Divine Mercy. It has become a new habit, where the alarm rings and everyone comes, usually without complaint, and desires it as a part of our routine and a part of our faith life.

**Let's normalize family prayer!**
I set my alarm for 7pm family rosary. They joined me without argument. 
We stopped what we were doing for 17 minutes. We are all called, not just the grownups. 

"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." ~Proverbs 22:6

While this is not a mandatory obligation for Catholics, it is of common opinion of the faithful that it should be a part of the life of every Christian. I whole-heartedly agree through my own experience of it, that there is value in every effort to pray the rosary. If you're new to it, start small with one decade. If you're familiar, get more familiar and increase its frequency. 



But don't be discouraged if you find yourself wrangling littles, glaring at your teen, and wondering what bead you should be on. Some days it won't go so smoothly. Remember, simply the effort is an offering to God.


About a year ago, Our Lady inspired me to begin a once a month gathering in my home of friends and their children to pray the rosary. So we began Pray N Play on the first Monday of the month. I was overjoyed at the response. Wanting everyone to feel comfortable and realizing there are people who don't know how to pray the rosary, I created a little prayer card to guide them. 
I am most certain the Rosary is a prayer that can change the world and save souls. So with a great urging in my heart, I share this Rosary Prayer Card with you to print and share with others. Have it in your purse, the room you pray in, tucked in your Bible and Adoration bag, in your rosary basket, on your home altar. 

Click on to open the image, right click to save the file. Or print from the PDF File on Google Docs {here} Print on cardstock, back to back. I will include the whole text at the bottom of this post.

 

"One day, through the rosary and the scapular, she will save the world." ~St. Dominic

Recently I watched a video and read a book that inspired my family to attempt to pray THE WHOLE ROSARY. Being informed that just praying one Mystery (5 decades) is a "Children's Rosary," which is perfect for busy families. However, there is much grace in the traditional full rosary being prayed throughout the day. If you #makethetime for it, you may find your experience of grace and time is increased. I also have found throughout scripture and in writings of the saints, that we are to remember to pray SINCERELY, as that we do not become a mumbling crowd unconnected to the Spirit.

The video by True Faith TV & GabiAfterHours. 

I highly recommend Edward Sri's book "Praying the Rosary Like Never Before." It has opened my eyes to the origins of the rosary, reaffirming Mary's promptings to pray it, scriptural and historical references, and so much to contemplate.

I urge you, through the promptings of the Holy Spirit and the Immaculata, to decide today to pray the Rosary like never before. To pray it every day, to pray the whole rosary if you can, to read about it's history, to pray sincerely, to meditate deeply on the prayers you're offering, and to contemplate the life of Jesus and His Blessed Mother Mary.

My mother gave me her house rosary for display on our entryway prayer table. This is our 2020 Lent setup, and it changes year to year. It offers the children a reminder to make our life a prayer.

This is a homemade kneeler using a garden knee pad and puff paints. Personally, my littles decided to pick at it so it didn't last long. But for a VBS craft, to teens to use at Steubenville conferences, or just a simple home craft, it is a wonderful way to promote kneeling while praying.

We've also enjoyed a delicious Rosary of Cupcakes amongst friends at a First Communion celebration.


Got 20 Minutes?

HOW TO PRAY THE ROSARY

Praying the Rosary is about meditating on the Life of Jesus and Mary, and allowing it to renew and inspire your spirit. You can pray all the mysteries in a day (recommended), or 1 of 4 Mysteries on the days suggested.  Begin by sharing your prayer intentions with Mary & Jesus, such as “for the souls in purgatory,” “for healing of…,” “for an end to…”

The Mysteries of the Holy Rosary
 The Joyful Mysteries (Monday & Saturday)
1. The Annunciation: Humility  (Luke 1:26-38)
2. The Visitation: Charity  (Luke 1:40-56)

1. The Baptism in the Jordan: Openness to the Holy Spirit  (Matt 3:1-17)
2. The Wedding at Cana:  Devotion To Jesus through Mary  (John 2:1-11)
3. The Proclamation of the Kingdom: Repentance & Trust in God
(John 3:1-5, Luke 18:16-30, Mark 4:11-33, Matt. 10:7-8, and more)
4. The Transfiguration: Desire for Holiness (Matt. 17: 1-9)
5. The Institution of the Eucharist:  Adoration (Matt. 26:19-30)

The Sorrowful Mysteries (Tuesday & Friday)

The Glorious Mysteries (Sunday & Wednesday)

Apostles’ Creed (5th Century Statement of Beliefs)
I believe in God, the Father almighty, Creator of heaven and earth, and in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died and was buried; he descended into hell; on the third day he rose again from the dead; he ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of God the Father almighty; from there he will come to judge the living and the dead.
· I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and life everlasting. Amen.

The Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13)
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come; thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
· Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses; as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail Mary (Luke 1:28,42 ; 1 Timothy 2:1-4)
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women; and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
· Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Glory Be (7th Century Hymn)
Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit,
· as it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.
Fatima Prayer (Prayer taught by Our Lady of Fatima in 1917)
·  O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of hell; lead all souls to heaven, especially those in most need of thy mercy.

Hail, Holy Queen (11th Century Prayer)
· Hail, holy Queen, mother of mercy, our life, our sweetness, and our hope. To thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve; to thee do we send up our sighs, mourning and weeping in this valley of tears. Turn then, most gracious advocate, thine eyes of mercy toward us; and, after this, our exile, show unto us the blessed fruit of thy womb, Jesus. O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.
Pray for us O holy mother of God,
· that we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.

[End by making the Sign of the Cross using your rosary.]


Closing Prayers (Optional)
· O God, whose only-begotten Son by his life, death and Resurrection, has purchased for us the rewards of eternal life; grant, we beseech thee, that by meditating upon these mysteries of the most holy rosary of the Blessed Virgin Mary, we may imitate what they contain and obtain what they promise, through the same Christ our Lord. Amen.

We pray for the Pope and his intentions, and for the Holy Church.
· Our Father…  Hail Mary…  Glory Be…

Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, have mercy on us.
Immaculate Heart of Mary, pray for us.
Precious Blood of Jesus, save us.

We ask all the angels and saints to intercede for us.
· Saint [name] , Pray for us.
· St. Michael the Archangel… (prayer)
· Angel of God, my Guardian dear… (prayer)


Got 7 minutes?
This is how we wrap up our school day, every day, with the 3pm Divine Mercy Chaplet prayers. Maybe it's something you'll consider doing with yours to end the school day or when you welcome your family home off the bus. Only 7 minutes, yes. We often use the recorded audio on the Relevant Radio app. Other times we sing the chaplet, which I think is so lovely. There are a few versions on Youtube where you can follow along.

Catholic Date Night Ideas for Married Couples


I've discussed with many couples how often we put time with our spouse lower on our priorities for a multitude of excuses. Well, I'm here to say it's time to shake it up and refresh your relationship with 144 ideas to discover your love and joy for each other all over again. Whether you're a newlywed, seasoned spouse or empty nester, you'll find something you'll enjoy together.

 
It's just the ticket! Created for the Catholic Christian couple in mind. 
 
New Floral Version (2022)! A perfect gift for a wedding or bridal shower!

Created for the Catholic Christian married couple in mind. On the occasion of our 20th Anniversary, I wanted to share a new look for the CATHOLIC DATE IDEAS AND DEVOTIONS FOR MARRIED COUPLES cards. This PDF Digital File for you to print has 144 ideas to make date planning easier, and keep God at the center of your relationship. That's more than one idea per week for two years! It covers the five love languages, a variety of locations and price ranges, and encourages virtue. A sheet of blank cards included for personal ideas.


Celebrating St. Valentine's Day and attending weddings are always great reminders that we need to nourish our relationships with extra love and care. It's also a nice resource for those Phase 2 NFP moments. Not every idea is Catholic, but there are several cards that refer to praying together, visiting shrines, starting a novena together, gathering with other couples, renewing your vows, and helping ignite your desire to include your faith in any adventure you embark.

Colored categories include:
Faith Integrated Ideas
Inexpensive & At home Ideas
Outdoor & Active Ideas
Enriching & Cultural Ideas
Group & Community Activities




Tickets for Love Languages include:
Quality Time
Give a Gift
Affirmation
Physical Touch
Acts of Service
Acts of Faith



THIS PDF FILE IS ON MY ETSY SHOP

VERSION: JUST THE TICKET

VERSION: LOVELY FLORAL

This is a digital item, so you will be given a link for a PDF download. 
I suggest printing two boxes on 60lb+ cardstock, and cards on 30lb paper.
Now includes several colorful options for printing on the backside of the cards for a more finished piece. Use one or a variety. Add rounded corners for a professional look.


They look great with rounded corners!

THE CARD BOX
Print two boxes to hold all 144 cards!

Chose an image to print on the reverse side if you want the inside to be decorated.
Cut out as directed on the page.
 
The tabs should keep the box together, but you could glue or tape it.

With this many ideas, we'd have enough to last us a few years. However, I'd love to add to this collection. Please comment with anything else you've done that was a real hit for you and your spouse.

More ideas might include:

Plant a Mary Garden
Tour a new Adoration Chapel each week
Study a Saint
Start a Novena
Read the Love Dare
Read The Five Love Languages
Take a Dave Ramsey Class
Chose a Procrastinated Project to do during Phase2 (NFP)
Write new vows for your upcoming Anniversary
Make plans for your Silver (25th) Anniversary
Create a Pinterest board of things you'd like to do
Plan a Family Vacation or Activity
Hold hands in public today
Sit next to each other in Mass
Attend a Marriage Encounter



MARRIED COUPLES EXAMEN
Have I said I love you today both in words and actions?
Do I speak with words that are good, true, lovely, and beautiful? Or do I use harsh, judgemental, and condemning words when speaking to him/her?
Have I complained about my spouse (interiorly or aloud)?
Do I share with others information about my spouse that isn’t meant to be shared? Specifically failings or faults?
Do I give him/her the benefit of the doubt or do I always assume the worst?
Do I offer loving patience when my spouse is having a difficult time or do I lose patience and lack compassion?
Am I empathetic with my spouse’s sufferings?  
Have I held on to small hurts or harbored resentment or anger?
Do I choose to smile and bring peace to the home even when I don’t feel like it?
Am I a reflection of the unconditional love of God to my spouse?
Did I use my spouse in any way today as a means to an end?
Have I loved him/her as a child of God with intrinsic value?
Have I worked to make life more bearable for my spouse today?
Have I prayed with and for him/her?
Have I forgiven wrongs immediately or do I hold on to them?
Have I taken myself or my spouse too seriously and failed to be a source of joy?
Have I read, listened to, prayed about, or watched at least one small thing today to build up the relationship?
Did I do any acts of love or service for my spouse today?
Was I pure in thought while away from my spouse?
Have I kept unhealthy friendships or allowed others to take priority over my married relationship?
Have I supported or watched any shows or media that devalue Christian marriage?
Do I say I’m sorry and admit wrongs openly?
Do I blame my spouse for my own failings?
Do I cling to pride when my spouse brings up grievances or do I bear wrongs patiently?
Have I honored my spouse with my presence and time today?
Has gambling, video games, novels, movies, or other created things taken precedence over my marriage today?
Do I love as Christ would have me love?


Written July 25, 2013 by Melissa @ Homegrown Catholics

I remember in the first year of our marriage, our refrigerator door was bare except for a dry erase board where every morning my husband wrote me a love note. Just a few years later it included potty training charts, finger paintings and ABC magnets. In that same time my task list went from a little post-it note to a
notebook page. In recent years, that same task list is now the prominent paperwork on the fridge door and tablet. Drawings get neatly tucked away, and love letters are few. That place for cherished things is now focused on what needs to get done. If it wasn’t for the food inside, I swear they’d avoid that area. While the “to do’s” of chores, schoolwork, yard work, and phone calls are important, I’ve somehow made them a prominent point of my life. What does that say to my family about where my focus is? What does it show of what we have accomplished? Where do we then share our love notes?
The list of priorities in most Catholic and faith-filled families is “First God, then Spouse, then Children and Family, then Others, then Self.”  While my task list is filled with great objectives, it is missing these categories all together! Perhaps we, who cherish our task lists on our fridge or on our electronic devices, should come up with a new way of prioritizing our tasks. It might look a little like this:

What I need to accomplish today
1. Spend time with God.
2. Love my Spouse by:
3. Enjoy my children as we:
4. How can I connect with others?
5. Taking care of myself.
6. This needs to get done too:
A Printable Task List is available HERE
I have a lot of self help books. After looking on my shelves there are plenty books about my faith, being a mother, about children, health, and homeschooling. Yet, there are only two books about being a good spouse. Somewhere along the line I forgot to add my marriage to my task list. When we become busy people and parents, we often forget to schedule in time with each other. That can leave you feeling as if you have a roommate more than a spouse.  When you take care of your car with regular oil changes, washes, waxes, adding gas, vacuuming, etc it will last longer, wear out less, get better mileage, and you are proud to be seen in it. Others see your car and notice your care of it. When one person in our neighborhood washes their car or mows their lawn, it’s like a chain reaction of all other neighbors doing the same. The same can happen with our marriages. As we nurture it with regular care and tune ups where needed, it will last longer, wear out less, get better mileage, you will be proud to be together, and others will be inspired to nurture their own marriages.

Those two books I have about marriage are great resources. They helped us realize that in order to have a better relationship, you can’t focus on changing the other person or be waiting for them to do something – you instead need to first change how you approach your spouse, take time to learn about him/her, and make the first move. Learn what is their love language (how they love and want to be loved), as well as what ways can you best show your love.
So when I put together my new task list, what might it include for loving my spouse?
  • Read about improving my marriage 
  • Go on a Marriage Encounter (www.wwme.org ) 
  • Renew our vows 
  • Be intimate with each other 
  • Be open to life (www.ourcatholicmarriage.org/family/life/) 
  • Be the first to: 
    • Go in for a kiss 
    • Roll over to snuggle 
    • Change the diaper 
    • Stop arguing 
    • Ask how his/her day went 
  • Leave love notes: 
    • Next to the task list or on the calendar 
    • In his lunch box (that you packed) 
    • Write “I Love You” in permanent marker inside the lunch box 
    • On the bathroom mirror, steering wheel, fridge or bouquet 
    • Thank you notes 
    • Doing a chore the other might usually do 
  • Have a regular date night: 
    • A long walk 
    • Coffee at a café 
    • Kids at Grandma’s night 
    • Dinner and a Movie 
    • Dance lessons 
    • Adoration Hour together 
    • Bowling 
    • Join a team or volunteer together 
    • Get a sitter to go shopping 
  • Dating with Kids: 
    • Family movie, but you sit next to each other 
    • Eat at a fast food with a playland or picnic at the park, kids play and you two can talk 
    • Have the kids plan your date
    • Have the kids make and serve dinner 
  • Other ways to be together: 
    • Wake up together and pray 
    • Making meals or washing dishes together 
    • Rosary before bedtime
Prioritizing your marriage by adding it to your task list, calendar and heart will eventually become part of a regular maintenance plan. Coming up with ideas together and writing them down will show your spouse that to you they are important and cherished. Checking off those tasks will have a whole new level of joy and appreciation. If the list is getting too long, perhaps some projects could be moved to a separate “It can wait” list to make room for what matters now. You should never be too busy for the real priorities in life.

Ten Resolutions for the New Year


While praying about my New Year's resolutions,  I utilized the ten commandments as a starting point. At a glance,  I'd often think there's no way I could break any of the commandments, and it seemed I was doing pretty well by these base standards. Yet,  continued reflection through beautifully written examinations of conscience,  I eventually learned how much deeper they go and require of us. While I may never kill someone,  how do I hurt others with words or actions? I will never covet my neighbor's wife, but do I have good relationships with my husband, family and friends? Let's fill our hearts with a focus on all we can do as much as the cannots. I pray these reflections will inspire your resolutions to reach for your potential in God's eyes.

1. Put God first in everything. Pray to Him in my decisions. Contemplate His Passion in the trials of my day. Put an end to behaviors that keep me from living out His plan for me.

2. Only speak words of truth and kindness. Only use the names of God and the holy souls with utmost respect. Make the sign of the cross every time I hear someone use the Lord's name in vain.

3. Attend Mass on Sundays and Holy days of obligation, not just because it's what we should do, but because I am realizing what a significant gift it is to be able to attend. Invite others to join me.

4. Be mindful of my parents' needs, be they physical or spiritual. Pray to the Holy Family to enrich and mend our family's relationships. Be determined to be the kind of parents our children want to respect and be around.

5. Refrain from harsh language, name calling, gossip, pridefulness, or any behavior that hurts the spirit of another. Make efforts to improve my impact on God's creation especially by reducing waste.

6. Open my eyes to the things I and my family watch, read, wear, etc that they be uplifting to our mind and soul in purity, truth, and goodness. To strive for chastity in my marriage, rooted in self giving love, and be a holy example to other couples.

7. Make time for the important things. Don't steal time that is better spent elsewhere. Give thanks often to God and others who bless my life. Don't waste money on frivolous things that could be better spent, saved or donated.

8. Stop gossip at its beginning, from your lips or deterring others from speaking ill of another. Save even "venting" for a prayer with Jesus. Refrain from justifying a desire that is frivolous or sinful for your own gain.
 
9. Be joyful in the blessings of your friends and neighbors. Love one another. Seek out and nurture holy and fruitful relationships.
 
10. Live humbly, and let go of things that cause a sense of pride or anxiety. Embrace opportunities for fasting and abstinence.